PSA: You can have it all. Just not all at once.

You can have it all. You just can't have it all at once. While we all know that guy or gal who has a great relationship with their parents, is in amazing shape, has a flu blog, donates time at the ASPCA, and is a DJ on the weekends, assume you are not that person. If you expect to be in the top 10% economically, much less the top 1%, fuck up. Two decades plus of nothing but work. That's my experience.