A lot of us are confusing these.. thank you @Lisa Bilyeu for having me on @Women of Impact 🙏

We've confused inconsistency with excitement and we've confused stability with boredom. If someone puts in effort, we see them as being desperate. If someone puts in time, we see them as being needy. If someone turns up and shows up, we think they're the one who needs us. Because we've convinced ourselves that love is chasing someone rather than wanting someone who never wants to leave.