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This is advice for other neurodivergent mixed couples. You're in this one. I know. It's just your voice. I know. Here I am. I didn't take a shower. I am neurotypical. My husband is autistic. It's our anniversary today. It is our anniversary today. Here are some holiday tips for other neuromixed couples. What am I doing for Christmas? You're going to see your family. What are you doing? I want to go be with my family and be with a big group of people. No, I don't want to do either of those things. I mean, I don't mind your family, but it's more the big group of people and all the activities. So what are you going to do? Stay here by myself. Everybody gets what they want. So instead of having a fight about it, there's no point in fighting about it. We just start doing different things. Yeah. I mean, it's okay with everybody. I need to hibernate for like a week after this project ends, which always happens. That week, this time happens to be the holiday week just because of the calendar. What are you going to do? What does hibernation week look like? Not speak. I'm not going to open my mouth and use the sound that's coming out right now. None of this is going to happen. My mouth won't open other than to eat and sound will not come out of me for seven, for however long you're gone. I will not interact with another human in any capacity. I will interact with many humans and we will both return with energy. Yeah. Because we get it in different places. I think for other people, this is a fight. It's like, oh, I want to do this and I want you to do this, but you have different needs. So when you have different needs, it's okay to do different things. We live in the same house. We see each other all the time. My family doesn't see you. They watch us on TikTok. They watch. They'll see that. Hey guys. Sorry, I'm not there. You can play this for everybody there. That's what Michael's doing. He's not speaking.