So often viewers will catch my slip back into using what’s being called “fundie baby voice.” While sometimes it’s intentional, because I’m demonstrating how I was taught, a lot of times it’s not. It’s my trauma resurfacing. Because the vocal suppression to force women to sound like earnest, seductive children is an abuse in evangelical fundamentalism. Women are taught to hide their emotional range and our voices are denied. Men are taught women who sound like little girls are seggually attractive. Recovery and retaining has taken years. So it’s frustrating when I unintentionally slip. It usually points to activated trauma, which definitely feel now as the life I worked so hard to escape is now leading in our mainstream. I hoped our government was safe, that educated, intelligent, constitutionally guided logic would prevail. But the fundamentalists have had their eye on dominion for a long time, and although they’re complementarian, with an authoritarian umbrella of so-called protection, there’s a host of women using their groomed baby voices against other women. Enter Katie Britt. Amy Coney Barrett. Kelly Johnson. And more evangelical women of the nationalist sects. To get more on what it’s really like to live in Christian fundamentalism grab my free FUNDIE CHEATSHEET, link in bio @tialevingswriter Preorder A WELL-TRAINED WIFE anywhere books are sold. #fundiebabyvoice #katiebritt #voicetraining #keepsweet #childlike #exevangelical #exmo #exmormon #fundies #shinyhappypeople #religioustrauma #primaryvoice #bookofmormonmusical #michelleduggar #duggars #gaslighting #manipulation #persuasion #tradwives