The autistic experience of being seen as argumentative or questioning...

Alright, since I'm training you today, you can just watch and learn while I clean this station. Oh, why are you doing it like that? Um, cause that's how you do it. I've been here for three years. Like, I know what I'm doing. No, no, no. I'm not questioning, like, your knowledge. I just want to know why you're doing it like that. So that I can copy you. So that I can understand. Is there a reason why that light is on? I mean, I was about to sit down and read my book, but if you really want me to turn it off, I can turn it off and go somewhere else. No, I didn't mean to make you upset. You can stay. I was just asking if there was a reason why the light was on. And you're gonna sit down and read. So, like, that's the reason. That makes sense. I don't care if the light is on or off. I just wanted to know. I don't really understand why the schedule is set up like this. That is the schedule. That's how I chose to set it up. Sorry we all can't go off of your schedule. But this is the schedule we're gonna use. No, no. I will follow your schedule. Like, I'm not saying that. I'm just, I don't know why it's set up like this. And I'm sure there's a reason that it's set up like this. So that's why I'm asking. Like, I don't understand. I want to know the reasoning behind why you set it up this way. Because I must be missing something.